The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™

Welcome to the "2.0" version of our landmark program. An exciting new approach to dating and relationships!

Welcome to the "2.0" version of our landmark program. An exciting new approach to dating and relationships!

Facilitated By: Guy Shahar & The Tantra Institute Relational Coaches

• The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ - $2997

• 3-Month Payment Plan - ($999/month x3)

• 4-Month Payment Plan - ($749/month x4)

Facilitated By: Guy Shahar & The Tantra Institute Relational Coaches

• The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ - $2997

• 3-Month Payment Plan - ($999/month x3)

• 4-Month Payment Plan - ($749/month x4)

Go From Feeling Stuck, Closed-off, And Lonely To A Love Life Full of Connection And Empowerment – In 90 Days Or Less

Go From Feeling Stuck, Closed-off, And Lonely To A Love Life Full of Connection And Empowerment – In 90 Days Or Less

"I want to thank all the women in the program... when I don't see brilliance in myself, they see beauty and tenderness"

There’s an old joke out there that goes:

 

“They say when you get married, you actually get three rings. The engagement ring, the wedding ring… and the suffering.”

 

Well, they also say that behind every good joke lies a layer of truth.

 

Now, I’m not implying that marriage is the death of happiness or anything like that. The reason the joke works is because it plays off of something we all know to be true…

 

Co-creating any kind of successful romantic relationship is tough.

 

Feeling powerless around attracting your dream partner is tough.

 

Dealing with rejection (and the accompanying sense of unworthiness) is tough.

 

Breaking free from old relationship patterns is tough.

 

Opening your heart to love again after you’ve been hurt is tough. 

 

Finding the courage to express your authentic self is tough.

 

Moving on after a heart-rending breakup is tough.

 

Getting back in the “dating game” after being single/taken for a long time? Yep, you guessed it – tough. 

 

I could keep going, but you get the point. 

 

Dating is hard. But it can be easy…

 

If you take the time to master key relationship skills and dissolve the fears holding you back.

 

Unfortunately, the best way to level up like that… is by working on these things in an actual relationship.

 

Quite the catch-22 isn’t it?

 

But what if you were able to take part in a series of low-pressure “practice” relationships…

 

In which there was no such thing as failure – only learning and growth?

 

What if you had a playground in which you could explore different relationship dynamics…

 

And have whatever kind of relationship you need to elevate your love life forever?

 

What if you had a whole community of people to help you identify your relational blindspots…

 

So you could completely reinvent who you are as a date, a partner, and a person?

 

“But Guy, where on earth would I be able to experience something like that?? It doesn’t exist!”

 

Correction – it didn’t exist.

 

Until we came up with our craziest, most revolutionary idea yet…

 

Welcome to the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™!

Experience the Magic of Evolutionary Relationships

Experience the Magic of Evolutionary Relationships

"It's magical when you can have a relationship with someone who's in the same channel that you are"

During the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™, you’ll be paired off (either by choice or random drawing) into a series of relationships with different partners. (We gender balance every cohort, to ensure an equal number of men paired with women

 

Each relationship has a set start and end date, so there’s no long-term commitment involved (although you can reconnect after the program is over). Meaning, there’s no pressure to impress your partner or “make things work.” 

 

Instead, the goal is to learn, heal, and grow into a better partner/person. 

 

And you won’t be doing it alone. In fact, you’ll have a whole community of people supporting you every step of the way…

 

Including our expert team of coaches, who will facilitate your transformation through many of our more advanced exercises. 

 

And best of all, your partners will be genuinely excited to evolve with you. So they’ll be there to encourage you and share in your struggles and breakthroughs.

"I understood here that I didn't need to shrink my desire. There was nothing wrong with my desire!"

Who is This Experiment For?

The90-Day Relationship Experiment™ is for you if you want to:

Start attracting higher-quality partners

These days the struggle to meet someone you genuinely connect with can be incredibly frustrating.

 

In this new world of online dating…

 

Ghosting has become so commonplace it can mislead you into thinking there must be something wrong with you. But the reality is, it’s never been harder to hold people’s attention.

 

And it’s easy for your life to feel empty when you know you have so much love to give…

 

But nobody to give it to.

 

Especially if you’re surrounded by friends who are all either in relationships or happily married.

 

But here’s the problem…

 

Whenever we’re faced with a strong sense of lack, the thing that we desire tends to become even more elusive. 

 

On the other hand, when we feel a sense of abundance around something, that area of our life tends to expand. 

 

The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ will allow you to tap into the mindset of being in a healthy relationship…

 

So you can feel it being part of your life already. And the confidence and clarity you gain from that experience will turn you into a magnet for future love and connection.

 

Plus, by evolving into a more loving and skilled partner yourself…

 

You’ll naturally start to attract partners who are on that same level. We’re talking quality partners who are grounded, emotionally intelligent, and most importantly…

 

Highly committed to unlocking new levels of personal growth together as a couple.

 

(Who knows… you might even meet your dream partner during the experiment itself!)

Build up your self-esteem and self-worth

[On feeling intimidated by certain women]

"I wasn't even aware that was a thing. But maybe it's not a thing anymore"

One of the biggest barriers to co-creating the intimacy you soul craves is the fear of not being enough.

 

Because when you start to subconsciously question whether you’re truly worthy of love and acceptance…

 

It can cause you to:

Shy away from pursuing romantic connections with amazing people because you see them as “out of your league”

Shy away from pursuing romantic connections with amazing people because you see them as “out of your league”

• Spiral into a cascade of negative self-talk whenever a partner pulls away or rejects your desire

• Spiral into a cascade of negative self-talk whenever a partner pulls away or rejects your desire

Compromise on your needs and boundaries in order to keep your partner/date happy

Compromise on your needs and boundaries in order to keep your partner/date happy

• Shut down around the possibility of finding/sustaining intimacy

• Shut down around the possibility of finding/sustaining intimacy

Sabotage your relationships (sometimes without even realizing) when things are going well

Sabotage your relationships (sometimes without even realizing) when things are going well

During the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™, you’ll get to hear other people open up about their self-doubts. About all the ways they struggle with their own self-worth.

 

And it’ll give you the permission (and the inspiration) to do the same. 

At which point, your community will be there to listen and receive you who are without judgment. 

Your relationship partners will be there to shower you with love and put a spotlight on strengths you didn’t know you had. 

Your coaches will be there to guide you in clearing anything that may be casting a dark cloud over your self-esteem.  

And all of that will reinforce the fact that:

You are worthy of love

So instead of settling for partners who don’t fulfill your desires…

 

You’ll be empowered to co-create the kind of intimacy you really want – without having to fight through feelings of insecurity at every turn. 

 

In other words, you’ll finally be free to let go and have fun with your dating life! 

"Earlier this year, I wasn't feeling so great about myself. And now I'm like 'I am a f**king catch!"

Become ready to date again

If you’ve been single or taken for a long time…

 

Then the prospect of dipping your toes back into the dating pool can come with an overwhelming sense of uncertainty.

 

Where do you even start? How do you know if you’re ready to date again? What if you’ve forgotten (or never learned) the “rules” of the dating game?

 

Well, if we expand upon the analogy of dating as a “game”...

 

It’s common for athletes coming off a long injury to play in a series of no-contact scrimmages, as a risk-free way to:

A) Test how far they are along in the recovery process

B) Regain a feel for the game and get their body back up to speed


The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ operates in much the same way. 

 

You’ll get to ease back into dating in a low-pressure way – without the risk of being seriously hurt.

 

But more importantly, you’ll receive extensive live coaching and guidance on how to use this experience as a training ground…

 

To prepare yourself for re-entering the real dating world.

 

Plus, you’ll have the support of your entire cohort AND the encouragement of your partners to uplift you…

 

As you slowly reinvent yourself until you actually feel excited to date again!   

Become a more skilled and confident partner

"For me, it's been about pushing boundaries. Where can I take a risk? Where can I be more vulnerable?"

Relationships these days often come with a high cost of failure.

 

The thought of losing “the one”...

 

The thought of missing out on your last chance at love…

 

The thought of wasting years of your life in a relationship only for it to end in heartbreak…

 

It can be enough to scare us into “playing it safe.” Because when the stakes are that high, why would you practice relating/communicating in ways that are outside your comfort zone?

 

After all, whenever you try anything for the first time, you’re bound to get it wrong. So why risk embarrassing yourself or messing things up?

 

It’s this high cost of failure that limits people from expanding their skillset in a relationship. Especially when it comes to things they have little to no experience with.

 

On the other hand… 

 

The 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ gives you free rein to practice key skills like:

Communicating your boundaries and desires

Communicating your boundaries and desires

• Taking a leadership role in a relationship

• Taking a leadership role in a relationship

• Balancing your needs with those of your partner

• Balancing your needs with those of your partner

• Opening up and being vulnerable in a way that deepens connection

• Opening up and being vulnerable in a way that deepens connection

• Holding the masculine or feminine pole on a date or in a relationship

• Holding the masculine or feminine pole on a date or in a relationship

• Energetic techniques for regulating your partner’s nervous system (as well as your own)

• Energetic techniques for regulating your partner’s nervous system (as well as your own)

And it’s because it provides a container in which mistakes aren’t just tolerated, but encouraged.

 

Combine that with the mentorship you’ll be getting from our experienced coaches…

 

(Not to mention being able to learn from the mistakes and triumphs of your cohort mates… that’s the beauty of taking part in a growth-oriented community!) 

 

And you’ll have everything you need to master new dating skills in record time. 

 

As a result, you’ll develop an unshakeable sense of confidence around everything you bring to the table in a relationship – something your future dates will find irresistible

"I learned that there's always a different chapter, a different way to connect that we can bring into our relationship"

Turn any breakup into a catalyst for your growth

Now you might be thinking to yourself…

 

If I’m taking part in all these relationships, does that mean I have to go through a bunch of breakups?

 

Well… yes and no. You see, in the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™, we don’t really do breakups. We “break upwards” instead!

 

“Breaking upwards” is a special relationship completion practice that we teach inside the program. Here’s a handy little chart that outlines the main differences between this technique and your average breakup:

The cool thing about “breaking upwards” is that you can do it anytime after your relationship ends. So not only can this practice help you avoid the usual post-breakup downwards spiral… 

 

But you can also use it if you’re currently stuck in a breakup rut, to reinfuse your life with meaning and excitement. 

Flush out old patterns and heal past trauma

"I came from an extreme fear of men... my body was viscerally shifting and flushing out those old patterns"

When it comes to dating, there’s always an emotional script running in the background.

 

Your subconscious mind has a script for how relationships work. It has one for what love should feel like. It even has one that outlines exactly what you can expect from the people you’re attracted to. 

The problem is that these scripts are often based on past relationship dynamics and relational trauma. They’re based on what we’re already most familiar with.

 

As a result, they can keep you stuck re-enacting the same harmful patterns, such as:

Anxiously expecting disappointment, rejection, or betrayal when things are “too good to be true”

Anxiously expecting disappointment, rejection, or betrayal when things are “too good to be true”

• Attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable or don’t have the capacity to meet your needs

• Attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable or don’t have the capacity to meet your needs

Closing yourself off from intimacy/vulnerability to protect yourself from being hurt

Closing yourself off from intimacy/vulnerability to protect yourself from being hurt

• Attracting partners who are extremely possessive, and/or controlling

• Attracting partners who are extremely possessive, and/or controlling

• Turning people off by becoming overly attached within the first few weeks of meeting

• Turning people off by becoming overly attached within the first few weeks of meeting

The other problem is that these patterns can be extremely hard to break – even after spending years (and tens of thousands of dollars) in therapy.

 

Because the “stuck” energy from your past relational experiences often gets trapped DEEP in your nervous system. 

 

So deep that it can only be accessed (and released) after it’s been “triggered” by an interaction in your relational life.

That’s why the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ is designed to gently bring your emotional blocks to the surface…

Within the container of a healthy relationship.

It also gives you the safe space (and guidance) you need to understand them, heal through them, and ultimately dissolve them. 

 

So you can fully open yourself up to the blissful joy of giving and receiving love!

"I knew that it was a safe place to be triggered... and now I feel like I can be more myself without fear of judgment"

Why This Experiment? How Did It Come About?

Why This Experiment? How Did It Come About?

I created this program for two reasons. One is to provide an alternative framework to what I call "Terminal Relationships" and the second is something I call "Relationship By Lease." See the videos below for more info:

What You'll Get (And How It Works)

Group calls for coaching and community/support

**Every call is recorded so you don’t miss a thing. The pod call recordings will only be accessible to the members of your pod**

Every week, you’ll have the opportunity to attend two calls for coaching and community/support.

The first is our 90-minute coaching call, which includes everyone in your cohort. During these big group calls, our team of coaches will give you a variety of exercises and tools to facilitate your journey. These include:

• A heart-healing exercise (done with your partner) to help each other break through emotional blocks using the power of love

• A heart-healing exercise (done with your partner) to help each other break through emotional blocks using the power of love

• The multi-step practice of “breaking upwards” – transform your breakups into a source of confidence, love, and gratitude

• The multi-step practice of “breaking upwards” – transform your breakups into a source of confidence, love, and gratitude

• A guided meditation for feeling into what you currently need in a relationship to unlock your next big breakthrough

• A guided meditation for feeling into what you currently need in a relationship to unlock your next big breakthrough

The Desire Game (played with your partner) – learn how to connect with your body’s desires so you can manifest them through intuition

The Desire Game (played with your partner) – learn how to connect with your body’s desires so you can manifest them through intuition

• A somatic ritual for letting go of old relationship patterns

• A somatic ritual for letting go of old relationship patterns

And so much more!

The second is a 60-minute “pod call” of about 7-10 people. Each of our coaches will be holding 1-2 pod calls per week on different days and at different times. You’ll be able to choose which pod you want to join based on your schedule and/or the geographic location of the other pod members. 

These calls allow you to connect with your fellow participants in a more intimate container…

So you can be held and energized by the collective support of the group!

Plus, you’ll get more individualized coaching to address any of the things you’re struggling with or feel stuck on. 

"I felt so energized after every pod call... and so connected and so held and seen"

BONUS #1

You’ll also get one free Flash Coaching Lifeline. This is a 20-minute coaching call (with a coach of your choice) that you can take advantage of at any point during the program.

You can opt for a 1-on-1 call if there’s something you’d like to work on individually… 

OR you and your partner can choose to have a couples session instead.

But either way, our coaches would normally charge upwards of $200 for a private coaching call like this. So use it wisely!

BONUS #2

If you’d like more private coaching, you’ll be able to book UNLIMITED additional sessions at 75% off. (This offer is good for as long as you’re still a part of the program)

4 time-limited relationships

Throughout this experiment, you’ll get to take part in three 7-day relationships and one 21-day relationship. (Every cohort is gender-balanced to ensure an equal number of men paired with women).

Before every pairing, you’ll have the option of asking anyone in your cohort to be your partner. Otherwise, your partner will be chosen via a random draw.

Of course, the purpose of these relationships is to help each other grow. But besides having someone in your life to build you up…

You’ll also be able to confide in your partners and receive emotional comfort when you need it most.

After all, who doesn’t enjoy getting loved up after a long day/week?

Plus, we’ll be giving you several tools to help guide your relationships, such as:

• Our Relationship Container Agreement™ – to help you get clear on your relationship intentions, communicate your desires, and set boundaries

• Our Relationship Container Agreement™ – to help you get clear on your relationship intentions, communicate your desires, and set boundaries

• The Relationship Activity Guide™ – a list of fun, connection-building activities that you can try with your partner

• The Relationship Activity Guide™ – a list of fun, connection-building activities that you can try with your partner

• The Relationship Completion Report™ – to help you reflect on your experiences and internalize everything you learn from each relationship

• The Relationship Completion Report™ – to help you reflect on your experiences and internalize everything you learn from each relationship

"The leveling up consciously and the detoxing my body was doing was like... holy!"

The chance to grow in community

Despite its name, the 90-Day Relationship Experiment™ isn’t just an experiment. Our goal is to co-create a growth-oriented community of people supporting each other.

Because when you’re able to share your struggles with others…

It helps you realize that you’re not alone. That there’s people out there who understand exactly what you’re going through.

When you’re able to learn from the insights and experiences of others… 

It allows you to evolve in ways that are beyond what you could achieve on your own.

 And when you’re surrounded by people who love, motivate, and inspire you

It gives you the emotional boost you need to overcome any obstacle in your way!

That’s the power of growing in community. And it’s something that you can continue to tap into even after the Relationship Experiment is over! 

These screenshots were taken from inside our private Relationship Experiment Facebook Group (which you’ll be given access to once you join). This group is a judgment-free space where you can ask questions, read about other people’s experiences, and build long-lasting bonds with your cohort mates!

BONUS #3

We’ll be throwing an in-person ceremony in NYC midway through the program! So you can meet up with all your new friends and practice partners :)

BONUS #4

At the beginning of the experiment, we assign all our participants a Relationship Ally. This is a cohort mate of the same gender as you, whom you can confide in whenever you’d like an outside perspective on any of your relationships.

"The men in this program have been incredible at holding space. Like unbelievable. It almost made me speechless"

Quick Summary Of What You Get

  • Weekly group coaching calls

  • Weekly pod calls for indivualized coaching and community/support

  • Flash coaching lifeline – free private coaching call

  • Unlimited private coaching sessions at a heavily discounted rate

  • 4 time-limited Evolutionary Relationships 

  • Access to our Facebook group for more connection

  • Free ticket to our in-person ceremony in NYC

  • A Relationship Ally for the duration of the program

Schedule:

The First 30 Days:

This is where we set the container and make our agreements. We'll get to know each other as a group through fun communication games. We'll also get to know each other as individuals, with relationship skill-building games played 1-on-1 in breakout rooms. So you’ll be learning and practicing while also building bonds with your cohort mates. 

The Next 60 Days:

In the next 60 days, you'll have a total of 4 practice relationships: three 7-day relationships and one 21-day relationship. You’ll have the option of partnering via a random draw or choosing your partners directly. 

You'll set intentions for what kind of relationship you'll create with each partner. You'll also receive our Relationship Activity Guide™, and decide on which activities you’d like to try together. During the coaching calls, you’ll be guided through some of our more advanced exercises, which you can practice 1-on-1 with your partner.  After each relationship is complete, our coaches will show you how to “break upwards.” 

Full Schedule of Classes:

**The big group coaching call takes place every Tuesday @8pm EST. Pod calls are held on multiple different days/times so you can choose whatever is most convenient for you. All sessions are recorded so you don’t miss a thing!**

• Wed, Mar 29 Kickoff!

• Wed, Apr 5 Group Games on Masculine/Feminine Polarity

• Wed, Apr 12 Group Games on Desire & Relationship Containers

• Wed, Apr 19 First 7-Day Relationship

• Wed, Apr 26 First "Breaking Upwards"

• Wed, May 3 Second 7-Day Relationship

• Wed, May 10 Third 7-Day Relationship

• Wed, May 17 Integration Week

• Wed, May 24 21-Day Relationship Begins

• *Sat, May 27 *IN PERSON Ceremony @ 7pm (in NYC)

• Wed, May 31 Relationship Day 7 Practices

• Wed, June 7 Relationship Day 14 Practices

• Wed, June 14 Breakup Upwards Day!

• Wed, June 21 Integration / Completion

"He showed up so beautifully... and because of that I felt my energy shift - I was able to come back into connection"

Frequently Asked Questions

What’s the age demographic? Will all the other participants be a lot younger than me? Will they all be a lot older than me?

Our cohorts include a wide range of age groups – from people in their 20s to those in their late 60s. If you’re worried that you’re “too old” for the program… 

Rest assured that we usually have almost as many people in their 50s and 60s as those in their 30s and 40s!

Likewise, if you’re in your 20s you’ll also have a bunch of people in your age group to connect with.

Plus, we give you the option of choosing your partners. So if you’d prefer to partner with people who are close to you in age…

Then you’re more than welcome to reach out to them before we do our random pairings. 

(The first pairing takes place 3 weeks into the program – plenty of time to get to know everyone in your cohort!)

After all…

This experiment is all about empowering you to create whatever relationship dynamic you need to unlock the best version of yourself :)

What’s the time commitment? What if I’m too busy to spend a lot of time with my partner? What if my partner is too busy to spend a lot of time with me?

The short answer is… what you get out of it will depend on the time you put into it.

The long answer?

You’ll have the option of attending 2 calls per week (60 to 90-minutes each) for coaching and community/support. You don’t have to attend every call. 

Each session is recorded so you can watch it on your own time. But we highly recommend you try to be there for most of them.

Besides that, the amount of time you spend with each relationship partner is up to you! 

That being said, we’ll give you guys a list of activities that you can try together. Some of these activities are more involved (e.g., taking a bath with your partner over Zoom).

But as a busy guy myself…

I’ve always been a fan of exercises that build intimacy and hone key dating skills in under 5 minutes.

So we’re going to give you plenty of ways to create MORE connection in 5 minutes than you would after 1 hour of conversation!

What if I can’t afford to attend the in-person ceremony?

The cost of your ticket is already included in the price of the program. That being said, we understand that you may not be based near the New York area. If so, you’ll be able to split Airbnb costs with your cohort mates from out of town. 

Not only will it make your overnight stay more affordable…

But you’ll also get to spend time living with all the amazing people who’ve had a hand in your transformational journey!

What is an “Evolutionary Relationship?”

An Evolutionary Relationship is one where both partners are committed to helping each other grow. This mutual commitment is prioritized over the longevity of the relationship.

In other words, the longevity of an Evolutionary Relationship is a byproduct of how well it serves both people’s intentions…

And NOT an end goal in and of itself (as is the case in a “terminal relationship”)

Are there any Covid-19 safety measures for the in-person gathering?

This program is 100% desire-based. Meaning that the covid safety measures we put in place will be based on the desires of our participants. So if you feel concerned about the possibility of Covid-19 exposure, then let us know! That way, we can take steps to put your mind at ease.

For example, in the past we’ve asked people to test themselves before attending our private events.

Will the experiment have a guaranteed number of males paired with females?

Much like Tantra Speed Date, we gender balance all our cohorts to ensure an equal number of men and women. Occasionally, we’ll have a few extra women, resulting in 1 or 2 same-sex pairings.

In these scenarios, we encourage the women to craft whatever relationship container feels right to them…

Whether it’s one of friendship, sisterhood, or even romance.

Can I join the Relationship Experiment if I already have a partner?

You most certainly can. After all, this isn’t a matchmaking program. The purpose of these practice relationships isn’t to find “the one”. It’s to help you become a better, more attractive (and more skilled) partner…

While leveling up your sense of inner peace, self-love, and confidence as a person

If you already have someone in your life who would benefit from that, then great!

Do I need to put my “real world” dating on pause to join?

Not at all! In fact, we encourage you to apply all the tools we teach as you’re learning them…

To bring more love and connection into your life outside the program.

"It just stretches you in so many ways... and you're able to practice anything you want to!"

Your Lead Facilitator

Guy Shahar is the Co-Founder and Lead Facilitator of The Tantra Institute, and the originator of Tantra Speed Date®. An Advanced Certified Tantra Educator (Level 5 Elite), he has studied a broad range of modalities including Tantra, BDSM, 0rgasmic Meditation, Morehouse, Chuluaqui Quodoushka and others.


A writer, entrepreneur, former filmmaker, and musician, Guy is attuned not only to his personal journey in being a more interconnected lover, but about how to teach others to do the same.

Through his work with Tantra Speed Date®, he helps to heal the rift between the masculine and feminine, showing singles how to relate to each other in a new and loving way. Over 500 Tantra Speed Date® events have occurred in 35+ cities, including internationally in the UK, The Netherlands and Canada since 2017.

With numerous television appearances as well as features in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, Time Out New York, San Francisco Chronicle, The Sunday Times, and the New Yorker, The Tantra Institute has presented over 1,000 workshops led by 30+ facilitators, serving more than 15,000 students.


His decades of real-world experience, combined with inner work to move through personal trauma, has established him at the forefront of sacred s*xuality and intimacy.


www.tantrany.com

Your Lead Facilitator

Guy Shahar is the Co-Founder and Lead Facilitator of The Tantra Institute, and the originator of Tantra Speed Date®. An Advanced Certified Tantra Educator (Level 5 Elite), he has studied a broad range of modalities including Tantra, BDSM, 0rgasmic Meditation, Morehouse, Chuluaqui Quodoushka and others.


A writer, entrepreneur, former filmmaker, and musician, Guy is attuned not only to his personal journey in being a more interconnected lover, but about how to teach others to do the same.

Through his work with Tantra Speed Date®, he helps to heal the rift between the masculine and feminine, showing singles how to relate to each other in a new and loving way. Over 500 Tantra Speed Date® events have occurred in 35+ cities, including internationally in the UK, The Netherlands and Canada since 2017.

With numerous television appearances as well as features in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, Time Out New York, San Francisco Chronicle, The Sunday Times, and the New Yorker, The Tantra Institute has presented over 1,000 workshops led by 30+ facilitators, serving more than 15,000 students.


His decades of real-world experience, combined with inner work to move through personal trauma, has established him at the forefront of sacred s*xuality and intimacy.


www.tantrany.com

Meet the Team

Maya Kova has been studying modalities of conscious living & loving for the past 12 years, diving into the spiritual, emotional, sexual, and mental aspects of The Self. She is certified in Applied Positive Psychology, a Certified Tantra Educator, and trained in kundalini yoga, energy work, D/S arts and shamanism.

Rafael A. Martinez Certified Life Coach & OM Trainer, Artist & Teacher. Born in Pereira, Colombia, Rafael Martinez has lived as an artist in New York and San Francisco since arriving to the United States as a child. Martinez has studied scientific illustration at The Bronx High School of Science and Art Education at City College in Harlem, as well as Fresco restoration in Lorenzo de Medici school in Florence, Italy.

Deborah Tantra Kat is a certified Tantric Educator, Bondassage Trainer and Desire Coach, supporting great s*x and incredible relationships worldwide.

Marshall Graeber is a Sex & Relationship Coach, trained and certified Orgasmic Meditation Life Coach and Trainer. His specialty is in the emotional and energetic parts of intimate relationships. He helps guide men and women in getting connected to their bodies so that they can feel a sense of ease and confidence in expressing their desires and sexuality.

Meet the Team

Maya Kova has been studying modalities of conscious living & loving for the past 12 years, diving into the spiritual, emotional, sexual, and mental aspects of The Self. She is certified in Applied Positive Psychology, a Certified Tantra Educator, and trained in kundalini yoga, energy work, D/S arts and shamanism.

Rafael A. Martinez Certified Life Coach & OM Trainer, Artist & Teacher. Born in Pereira, Colombia, Rafael Martinez has lived as an artist in New York and San Francisco since arriving to the United States as a child. Martinez has studied scientific illustration at The Bronx High School of Science and Art Education at City College in Harlem, as well as Fresco restoration in Lorenzo de Medici school in Florence, Italy.

Deborah Tantra Kat is a certified Tantric Educator, Bondassage Trainer and Desire Coach, supporting great s*x and incredible relationships worldwide.

Marshall Graeber is a Sex & Relationship Coach, trained and certified Orgasmic Meditation Life Coach and Trainer. His specialty is in the emotional and energetic parts of intimate relationships. He helps guide men and women in getting connected to their bodies so that they can feel a sense of ease and confidence in expressing their desires and sexuality.

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